Talking about sex openly and candidly can be problematic for many people. Even though you have a satisfying sex life with your mate, you may have a particular fantasy that you would like to share with him, but feel embarrassed to talk about it. Below are some guidelines to help you overcome this fear.
Decide that your fantasy is nothing abnormal. Visit a bookstore and take a look at the number and variety of books in the section on “sexuality” that deal with fantasies written by men and women.
Tips & Warnings
- Remember that virutally everyone has sexual fantasies of some type. We are all sexual beings at our essence, so it is very normal to think about sex in a variety of ways. Be open with your mate, and you will create a stronger, more realistic approach to your relationship.
- Sharing a sexual fantasy puts you in an extremely vulnerable position. Be sure that you only do so with a partner you can trust completely, and be ready to withstand a possible rejection of the idea, by realizing that it isn’t a rejection of you or your love.